The 13 Best Male Sex Toys in 2023 - Fleshlights, Masturbators, Prostate Massagers & More!
Fleshlights, Tenga Eggs, and Everything In Between
Sponsored by Sexy Liberation November 14, 2022
Hello, my name is JC. I'm a full-time male sex educator.
While many "Men's Magazine" sites like to rank the best male sex toys, I have a suspicion that many of them haven’t even tried them IRL.
As a trooper of adult toys for men, I have stuck my johnson into various squishy materials, subjected my prostate to extreme leg-shaking orgasms, and worn cock rings so tight I thought I might explode.
I know, give me a Purple Heart already.
So, with my illustrious experience in mind, I'm going to give you the skinny on the top 13 best sex toys for men in 2023, whether you're into penis vibrators, anal stimulation, or anything in between.
Top 13 Best Men's Sex Toys
First Look
1. Best automatic male sex toy - Autoblow AI 2. Vibrating & sucking cock machine - Lovense Max 2 3. Cheap and easy - Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage 4. Automatic cock-milking machine - Fleshlight Universal Launch 5. Cool Japanese penis vibrator - Tenga Flip Zero EV 6. Cheap disposable penis toys - Tenga Egg Easy Beat 7. Most intense Fleshlight - "Stoya Destroya" Pornstar Fleshlight 8. Cheap & cheerful - THRUST Pro Mini Ella Realistic Pocket 9. Use on your penis, butt, nipples, wherever - FUN FACTORY Manta 10. Top vibrating cock ring - Lelo TOR 2 11. Prostate play for beginners - Aneros Helix Syn Trident 12. Remote control vibrating prostate massager - Lelo Hugo 13. Ultimate prostate toy - NJOY Pure Wand
1. Autoblow AI - Best Automatic Male Sex Toy
Price: $239.95
• Feels like a real blowjob • AI “learned” BJs by watching porn for 6000 hours • 100 unique sucking settings
Are you horny, but also tech-savvy? Well boy do we have a men’s sex toy for you.
The Autoblow AI is designed to feel exactly like a real blowjob, with tight silicone lips gently caressing your penis or deepthroating it aggressively - you decide.
Available in 3 different sizes to match your penis shape, you can set the Autoblow to a whopping 10 different stroke patterns at 10 different speeds - giving you 100 different ways to receive an automatic blowjob whenever you want.
Originally started as an Indiegogo campaign, the makers of Autoblow forced an AI to watch 6000 hours of BJ videos, so this male sex toy actually machine learned the 10 best ways to give blowjobs.
The motor is a little noisy and it does need to be plugged into the wall, which isn’t ideal (but it means that you never run out of batteries) and the motor is designed to last for 6000+ hours of total use.
That’s a lot of fun to be had!
2. Lovense Max 2 - Best Vibrating Penis Stroker
Price: $99.99
• Vibrates & contracts to “suck” • App control option • Bumpy internal sleeve (for intense pleasure)
Tight and intense, the bumpy internal sleeve of the Lovense Max 2 will send chills down your spine as you push your penis into the tight hole and then activate the vibrations for extra lip-biting intensity.
There are even contractions that “suck” on your penis, complete with an air valve to control the level of suction you want. This is more than a BJ - this is a whole new thing.
Though the Max 2 comes with multiple factory settings, the real fun is the Lovense Remote app, where you (or your partner!) can control the toy from your phone. You can even create your own personalized settings or download dick-sucking experiences put together by other users.
The world is your sexy oyster.
Annoyingly, the contractions of this toy can be quite loud, but if noise isn’t a concern for you, then the Lovense Max 2 is the ultimate vibrating penis toy. And at $99, it’s quite frankly a steal.
3. Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage - Best Value
Price: $34.95
• Open on both sides • Cool transparent design • 3.5 inches of insertable length
Ideal for masturbation or spicing up oral sex with your partner, the Quickshot Vantage is one of the coolest-looking male masturbator toys with the coolest name to match.
If you're only going to buy one masturbation sleeve for the rest of your life, then the Vantage would be my go-to "you will probably like it" recommendation.
The interior texture is full of interesting lumps and bumps for the ultimate penis pleasure, and if you've got a voyeuristic side, then the transparent case/sleeve allows you to see all the action.
Even better? When you finally climax, it's easy to clean and rinse out this open-ended male stroker, unlike traditional closed-ended Fleshlights. Booyah.
4. Fleshlight Universal Launch Bundle - Best Automatic Masturbation Machine
Price: $262.67 (inc. lube & Fleshlight)
• Automatically masturbates you • Up to 250 strokes per minute • Works with all Fleshlights strokers
In case you aren't aware, there is a magical machine that can automatically masturbate your penis at up to 250 strokes per minute. This machine's name? The Fleshlight Universal Launch. Design to work with ANY Fleshlight-branded masturbation sleeve, this really is the ultimate lazy man's solution to self-pleasure.
In the age of technological advancement, I'm glad we made such a glorious machine!
With various speed settings and stroke length control options, you can truly customize your masturbation experience with the Universal Launch. As if all of this wasn't enough, it also comes with a universal smartphone holder at the top, so you can watch your favorite porn on your phone too.
Oh, and this bundle we've attached here INCLUDES lube and a Fleshlight too. You're welcome. Even the best porn games don’t offer this level of excitement.
5. Tenga Flip Zero EV - Best Vibrating Stroker
Price: $99.99
• 6.3 inches of insertable length • Multiple vibration modes • Unique male masturbator
You've got to love Japan!
Tenga - the Japanese sex toy company behind this sex toy - has made a futuristic male masturbation toy that looks like it's straight out of Star Trek. Equipped with dual vibrating cores capable of multiple vibration modes, the Flip Zero EV has a unique design that you kind of "clamp" onto your penis.
Don't worry, it feels good.
Although the battery life of 40 minutes is a little lackluster compared to other popular men's sex toys in this space, the Flip Zero EV still provides an experience like no other. The bumps and swirls of the internal sleeve slide against the head of your penis while vibrations send toe-curling chills down your spine. Fun times.
6. Tenga Egg Easy Beat 6-Pack - Best Cheap Male Masturbators
Price: $9.99 (single egg)
• Unique disposable masturbation aid • 6 different penis sensations • Each egg includes lube
Another weird and wacky male sex toy invention from Japanese sex toy company TENGA - the Tenga Egg collection is adorably designed to look like a collection of colorful eggs.
However, that's where the wholesomeness ends.
Each Tenga Egg contains a stretchy penis stroker that can stretch to accommodate basically any penis size, making these toys very versatile. Each egg's penis stroker has a different internal texture/design - so the experience is different every time - and there's even a little sachet of lube included in every one. Very convenient.
Basically, this is a Kinder Surprise for your penis. Get in.
7. "Stoya Destroya" Fleshlight - Most Intense Fleshlight
**This sex toy is graphic, so you’ll need to click to see the inside**
Price: $79.95
• Molded from Stoya's actual vulva • 9 inches of insertable length • Very intense silicone bumps & fangs
You may be familiar with the classic Pink Lady Fleshlight, but did you know that there's a whole range of "pornstar" fleshlights that are literally molded from vulvas and butts of real pornstars?
Well, this is Stoya Destroya - a sex toy based on adult film actress Stoya. Perhaps you're familiar?
Once you enter this incredibly lifelike masturbation sleeve, your penis will be tortured by silicone fangs, ridges, lumps, and bumps to provide an intense 360-degree milking experience like no other.
Add a little water-based lube, close your eyes, and prepare for intense sexual pleasure.
8. THRUST Pro Mini Ella Realistic Pocket - Best Cheap Male Sex Toy
Price: $16.99
• Very affordable price • Discreet packaging & credit card charge • Bullet vibrator compatible
Okay, some of you are looking at all these sex toys for men and thinking "Jesus that's expensive". I know the feeling. However, this cheap men's sex toy from THRUST is perfect for getting your rocks off without remortgaging your home in the process.
Designed to resemble a real vulva and clocking in at just over 5 inches deep, the Ella is one of the best value masturbation sleeves on the market right now. The bumpy internal texture feels great when you're pumping, and bigger guys get added pleasure from hitting the back wall of the toy with their penis.
All that for less than $20. Brilliant.
9. FUN FACTORY Manta - Most Versatile Vibrating Massager
Price: $139.99
• Very versatile vibrating sex toy • Use on your penis, your partner's clitoris, etc. • 6 speeds & 6 vibration patterns
Looking to spice up your sex life? Look no further than the Fun Factory Manta.
I'm a HUGE fan of this sex toy, mainly because it's just so damn versatile. The silicone flaps can wrap around the base of your penis, turning it into a "vibrating penis" for your partner. You can also use the vibes to tease the head of your cock, your butt, your balls, your partner's clitoris, your partner's nipples...
... the list goes on.
As a male sex toy expert, this is one of the #1 toys that I keep beside my bed for basically whatever. It's great for adding some extra vibration to jack-off sessions, it's great for teasing your partner during bondage/BDSM... it's the Swiss Army Knife of sex toys.
Oh, and the silicone flaps vibrate freely in the air, so the sensations feel EXTRA intense, no matter how hard or gently you press the Manta against your body.
10. Lelo TOR 2 - Best Vibrating Cock Ring
Price: $139.99
• Premium-quality vibrating cock ring • 100% medical-grade silicone • 6 vibration modes
I can say with confidence that the Lelo TOR 2 is the best cock ring on the market by quite a stretch.
While the price tag may be a little steep, this vibrating cock ring is made from 100% body-safe silicone and is also completely waterproof, so you can clean it easily and don't need to worry about it getting damaged during sex.
When it comes to penis rings, this USB rechargeable cock ring simply outperforms the rest - with 90 minutes of battery life and a simple 2-button interface that keeps things nice and simple.
The TOR 2 will make your penis vibrate while supplying your partner's clitoris with intense vibrations, taking your sex to the next level. Become a living, breathing vibrator. She’ll love it.
11. Aneros Helix Syn Trident - Best Prostate Massager
Price: $69.95
• Great introduction to prostate toys • Relatively small & flexible • Toe-curling prostate orgasms
Featuring a slim body and insertable length of just 4 inches, the Aneros Helix Syn Trident is the perfect introduction to prostate and anal toys for guys who may be nervous to explore anal play for the first time.
Designed to slip into your butt with a little bit of water-based lube, this anal toy sits nicely against your P-spot, sending pleasure waves throughout your body.
Believe me, I've climaxed from this toy without even touching my penis. Yes, really.
The only downside to a non-vibrating anal sex toy like this? You need to learn how to use them. These toys are best used by learning to contract/relax your pelvic floor muscles until they "spasm" and cause the Helix to batter against your P-spot so hard that you literally moan and explode.
Once you get the technique down, this experience is WAY more intense than regular masturbation. Believe me.
12. Lelo Hugo -Top Remote Control Vibrating Prostate Massager
Price: $219.99
• Dedicated remote control • Motion-activated vibrations • USB rechargeable & 100% waterproof
If you're a fan of vibrating prostate stimulators, the Lelo Hugo will blow you away. This advanced anal sex toy is designed to sit against your P-spot snugly while subjecting you to toe-curling vibrations of many different patterns and intensities.
It really is an intense anal pleasure experience.
Even better? The Lelo Hugo comes with a dedicated remote control that allows you to cycle through the preset vibrations OR use one of the SenseMotion modes that allow you to control the strength of the vibrations by tilting the remote or shaking it in your hand.
Personally, I prefer to stick to the factory settings, but if you like cool gadgets and anal orgasms, you'll be in heaven.
13. NJOY Pure Wand - Best Prostate Stimulator Ever Made
Price: $149.99
• Double-ended 8-inch wand • 100% stainless steel • Can be used for P-spots or G-spots
Weighing in at just over 1.5lbs, this unisex stainless steel wand is a sex toy that could also double as a weapon against home intruders. It's HEAVY - but that's the point.
You lube it up, slide it in, and allow the weight/stiffness of the steel to really hammer your P-spot as you move it in and out or simply relax and feel into the sensations.
Take your pick!
There are 2 different heads on this toy - one with a 1-inch diameter and one with a 1.5-inch diameter, so you can start small and work your way up as you get more confident. Because steel retains temperature for quite a long time, you can also cool/warm the tips in cool/warm water to add extra sensations to your anal play.
No matter your gender, this thing WILL make you feel things you didn’t know you could feel. G-spots and P-spots beware!
Best Male Sex Toys FAQs
When it comes to sex toys for men (or people with penises/prostates) there are a few questions that guys are scared to ask.
Here are some answers to commonly asked questions:
What Types of Male Sex Toy Exist?
Generally speaking, sex toys designed for men fall into the following categories:
1. Penis toys - Fleshlights, “Pocket pussies”, Penis strokers, Penis vibrators, Automatic masturbation machines, Sex dolls 2. Prostate toys - Prostate massagers, Prostate vibrators, Anal dildos 3. Sex enhancers - Cock rings, Penis pumps, Penis extenders
After these types of toys, most other sex toys can be considered unisex or as part of a specific kink. For example, nipple clamps and vibrating bullets could be used by someone of any gender.
Are Gay Sex Toys Different From Straight Male Sex Toys?
The short answer is no - there is usually no difference between gay sex toys and straight male sex toys. The main difference is that instead of vagina-style Fleshlights, some gay men may prefer Fleshlights modeled after a male bottom or mouth.
Makes sense.
And no… contrary to popular belief, anal toys or prostate toys don’t make you “gay”. You can use prostate massagers and anal toys without being “gay”. Ultimately, you have a G-spot 2-3 inches inside your anus that can give you incredibly powerful orgasms, regardless of your sexuality.
If you don’t take full advantage of the orgasms your body can give you, then it’s your loss!
Should I Buy Male Sex Toys on Amazon?
Generally speaking, I would not advise that you buy male sex toys on Amazon. In fact, I wouldn’t suggest that you buy ANY sex toys on Amazon, period.
But why?
While a lot of sex toy retailers on Amazon are genuine, there are a lot of cheap, dangerous, and fake knock-off sex toys made from dangerous or toxic ingredients on Amazon. As a result, it can be easy to buy a dodgy sex toy and give money to the “wrong” people.
I would strongly suggest purchasing men’s sex toys through the links provided in this article or through trusted adult toy retailers such as LoveHoney and SheVibe.
Conclusion - What Is The Best Sex Toy For Men?
We've looked at a cross-section of sex toys for men today, but which one is the crème de la crème of adult toys?
In my opinion, the Quickshot Vantage is a great all-around penis stroker, the Fun Factory Manta is a versatile couples/solo toy, and the Aneros Helix Syn Trident is a brilliant prostate toy for beginners.
However, the Autoblow AI remains a bestseller for a reason - it can suck your penis in 100 different ways. Need we say more? While it can’t sync with the top VR porn games like some more high-tech models, it’s still a great choice to get your rocks off.
So, whatever kind of sex stuff you're into, I hope you found your perfect product and enjoyed our list of the best sex toys for men in 2023! Whichever sex toys you choose, remember to stay safe, have fun, and keep an open mind.
You won't regret it.